Mindset
Wait out the craving instead of fighting it
Cravings peak in about five minutes. Suppressing them makes them worse.
What it’s worth
Defusion beats suppression; suppression rebounds
Do this
- →Put twenty minutes between the urge and the decision. You're allowed the thing afterwards.
- →Name it rather than fighting it: 'I'm having the thought that I want chocolate.'
- →Do something absorbing and visual for a couple of minutes. It genuinely interferes with the craving.
Why it works
A craving is a wave, not a state. Trying to suppress the thought reliably increases how often it returns, whereas noticing it and letting it pass lets the time-course do the work for you.
The evidence
Defusion techniques outperform thought suppression, which produces a rebound effect. Visually demanding tasks reduce craving intensity measurably in real-world settings.
The honest bit
This is for the ordinary evening urge. Persistent, distressing patterns around food are worth taking to a professional rather than a tactic from a website.
Knowing it isn’t the hard part
You’ve just read the tactic. The difficult bit is the Tuesday in six weeks when you’re tired and it’s raining. Milo is a coach you text like a friend: it knows which of these you’re working on, notices when it slips, and brings it up once rather than nagging.
See how Milo worksTry next
- Add something instead of banning something — Every rule you make is a rule you have to keep. Additions don't work like that.
- Swap the sugary drinks — The single biggest win available to anyone who drinks their calories, and it costs almost nothing.
- Sleep a bit longer, eat noticeably less — If you're under about six and a half hours, this is a bigger lever than most diets.
General information, not medical advice. If you have a health condition, are pregnant, or are under 18, talk to a healthcare professional before changing how you eat or train.